weird people

i just found out that a person i know has been going around getting worried because i'm friends with their ex and whatsoever lah. uhmmm. i mean, come onnnnnnn, we're adults for crying out loud. do you honestly think i'd go through the trouble of getting close to those people in order to spite you? seriously? i have much more important things to think of rather than plotting your demise. in fact, i haven't even been thinking about you at all until recently.

okay, so lets just get this straight. because according to you, i have died in your heart a long time ago. good. then, don't bother adding me up on facebook. don't you think that's a taaad bit immature of you? so, you don't like me, you go around spreading shit about me. well, go ahead. i'm not stopping you. i'm just sayin', leave me be. i'm not interested in your affairs, so don't be bothered with mine pleaseeee!

okay, off to another issue. i hate, absolutely hate it when people like to talk about religion and like to correct other people but go around and tell others of their fellow muslims' aib. i'm not much of a contoh but i don't go around sebok2 hal orang. i mean, come on, the teguring part, i'm totally for it. its for the best and its for your own good too. i mean, i know you have a responsibility to correct a fellow muslim but leave it at that. tegur and let go. tegur and pray to Allah for them to change. don't go around telling spreading gossip and telling the whole world about it. yes, salah dia buat dosa, tapi perlu ke malukan dia dpn keluarga? lepastu org lain speculate and that leads to fitnah. siapa nak tanggung dosa org yang memfitnah tu pulak? you people who spread the word? gitu?

so yeah, you people want to be better muslims, everyone does. isn't it part of The Deen to jaga aib saudara kita? bende basic tu. dah tegur, diam. biar habis antara orang-orang yang terlibat sahaja. no need to CCN it to the whole world. this goes out to a LOT of people and i just feel its a bit unfair that some people feel they are superior to others just because they've experienced an epiphany that is beyond the understanding of us mere mortals. you know what? it doesn't make you any better if you go around mengumpating and gossiping like tomorrow will never come.

i've had people come up to me and say that they thought i was bitch before they got to know me. and i'm okay with that because it's BEFORE they knew me, not when they've become my friend. they're my friends now and whatever happened before that is all in the past. and it's meant to be just that, a part of the past. something not worth crying over. i'd like to think i'm the type of person who is not picky about whom i consider as my friends. if i'm friends with a person it's because i enjoy their company. i don't do the whole mean girls/gossip girl scheming thing. its very unbecoming.

but neways, those are just my humble opinions but opinions that i believe in nonetheless. btw, if you have anything to say, make it count by actually owning up and posting your name instead of cashing in under 'anonymous'. at least i'll know who i'm addressing. :) but i'll still entertain you nameless people, just not very nicely tho. hey, thanks for spending your time reading my crap. don't like it, don't read it next time. this is not one of my blasts. i just feel like saying all this, today.